The Lord be with you.
I’m not looking for a show of hands here, but I want you to think about this for a moment: How many of you can say you have an enemy? Now for myself, I can’t imagine that anyone in this congregation has an enemy, but then, I don’t know everything about your lives or what struggles or challenges you all have overcome throughout your life on God’s green earth. If you have an enemy, do you remember how they became your enemy?
I have had enemies in my life. The usual way I’ve made an enemy is that I’ve spoken an uncomfortable truth to someone and they haven’t wanted to accept it. When I lived in Paxton, Illinois, a local businessman wanted to start what he called a “Raffle House.” We had had issues a few years prior to that with a native American tribe trying to reclaim some land outside the town for a casino. The community successfully rebuffed it, in part because they were able to demonstrate there was very little evidence that the tribe had legitimate historical claim to the area. Because of that opposition, I figured there was still some fire left in the community to oppose a gambling operation in our conservative little town.
To make a long story short (A Tale of Two Photos), I discovered he was essentially offering a Bingo game without a State license to play Bingo and in the process skirting the 5% tax on Bingo required by State law, so I tattled on him in a letter to the editor. The Raffle House only lasted about 8 months before it went belly-up. A few months later, I received a tip from the owner’s disgruntled ex wife (or so it seemed) about a similar operation one of his relatives was running in the large college town 25 miles down the road. I reported it to the police there, and they shut it down almost immediately. The Raffle House owner wound up getting me fired from the church I was serving at the time because he had given money to the church, which he never attended, and demanded I recant. I didn’t recant, so I quit.
I don’t think that guy ever forgave me for the grief I caused him. But I forgave him. In fact, the experience I gained in researching the laws and regulations regarding that story helped land me my first full-time job after I moved back to Omaha a few years later. Did I “love” my enemy by confronting him? I’d had no interaction or relationship with him prior to all this coming up, but I’d heard a lot of things about his character, and very little was positive. Was I doing good to him by warning him about the State laws he seemed to be violating?
The Bible speaks of many different kinds of enemies and different ways we can respond to them. Our enemies can come from anywhere and can range from those who don’t know us at all to members of our own family (Matthew 10:36). They can be people who hate or dislike you for any number of reasons, including your gender or your skin color. They could be people to whom we speak uncomfortable or challenging truths (Galatians 4:16).
The gospel writers love to cite Psalm 110:1:
“ ‘The Lord said to my Lord:
“Sit at my right hand
until I put your enemies
under your feet.” ’[1]
This of course is one of the more prominent messianic psalms about Jesus being victorious over his “enemies.” Many Jews in the time of Jesus saw that as a promise that the Messiah would overthrow Roman rule, but God had a different idea. The enemies God had in mind were the Jewish leaders who had imposed a bunch of legalistic requirements on the Jews that weren’t necessary for salvation.
Paul says in his discussion of the resurrection in 1 Corinthians 15 says that Christ “must reign until he has put all his enemies under his feet. 26 The last enemy to be destroyed is death.”[2] So we’ll never really be free of our ultimate enemy, death, until Christ is victorious at the consummation of history.
The New Testament speaks quite a bit about how to deal with our enemies. “Resist the devil and he will flee from you.” “Turn the other cheek,” which in that culture meant don’t give your enemy the opportunity to continue to pummel you unless he wants to disgrace himself. “Carry the soldier’s pack a second mile,” which would by default bring shame upon the soldier. “Lend without expecting anything back.”
I could say much more about what the Bible says about our enemies, but I think we could probably learn a little more dealing with enemies if we take a look at the story of man who had enemies within his own family as well as at the highest levels of the Egyptian government. I’m speaking, of course, about Joseph. Genesis 45:1–15 tells the story about Joseph reconciling with his brothers, and I want to read that first here. But I will go back and highlight some of the other events of his life that reveal how he responded to having and rediscovering his enemies.
Then Joseph could no longer control himself before all his attendants, and he cried out, “Have everyone leave my presence!” So there was no one with Joseph when he made himself known to his brothers. 2 And he wept so loudly that the Egyptians heard him, and Pharaoh’s household heard about it.
3 Joseph said to his brothers, “I am Joseph! Is my father still living?” But his brothers were not able to answer him, because they were terrified at his presence.
4 Then Joseph said to his brothers, “Come close to me.” When they had done so, he said, “I am your brother Joseph, the one you sold into Egypt! 5 And now, do not be distressed and do not be angry with yourselves for selling me here, because it was to save lives that God sent me ahead of you. 6 For two years now there has been famine in the land, and for the next five years there will be no plowing and reaping. 7 But God sent me ahead of you to preserve for you a remnant on earth and to save your lives by a great deliverance. w
8 “So then, it was not you who sent me here, but God. He made me father to Pharaoh, lord of his entire household and ruler of all Egypt. 9 Now hurry back to my father and say to him, ‘This is what your son Joseph says: God has made me lord of all Egypt. Come down to me; don’t delay. 10 You shall live in the region of Goshen and be near me—you, your children and grandchildren, your flocks and herds, and all you have. 11 I will provide for you there, because five years of famine are still to come. Otherwise you and your household and all who belong to you will become destitute.’
12 “You can see for yourselves, and so can my brother Benjamin, that it is really I who am speaking to you. 13 Tell my father about all the honor accorded me in Egypt and about everything you have seen. And bring my father down here quickly.”
14 Then he threw his arms around his brother Benjamin and wept, and Benjamin embraced him, weeping. 15 And he kissed all his brothers and wept over them. Afterward his brothers talked with him.[3]
Those of you who know the story of Joseph, or who have seen Andrew Lloyd Webber’s Joseph and the Amazing Technicolor Dreamcoat, know how Joseph, the first born of Jacob’s first love, Rachel, was his favorite son and had received “a coat of many colors,” or as more recent translations put it, a “richly ornamented” (NIV 1984) or “ornate” (NIV 2011) coat, or as the NRSV puts it, “a long robe with sleeves,” which doesn’t sound nearly as exciting as the other descriptions. The point is it was a special coat that made his brothers extremely jealous. As the apple of Jacob’s eye, Joseph (17 years old at the time) had earned the ire of all his brothers. Not a very good way to enter adulthood!
Add to that his dreams that his whole family, including his father, would one day bow down to him, and it’s not hard to understand the intense jealousy toward him. Although it’s not biblical text, I think the line Joseph’s brothers sing in “Joseph’s Coat” from the musical captures their jealousy quite nicely: “Being told we’re also-rans/does not make us Joseph’s fans.” From that point on, they had it in for Joseph. So they did what any jealous brothers would do: they overpowered him, faked his death, and sold him to some nomadic Ishmaelites, who in turn sold him into slavery in Egypt. That haunted the brothers for the rest of story.
But Joseph, having escaped the enmity of his brothers, found himself as a favorite slave in the house of Potiphar, the captain of the Egyptian guard. However, even in that position, he had an “enemy” in Potiphar’s wife, who repeatedly attempted to seduce him. That eventually cost him his lofty position and landed him in jail. He probably could have been executed on the spot for such things, but I think Potiphar knew the character of his wife and needless to say, he didn’t think too highly of her. My guess is Potiphar knew Joseph hadn’t done anything wrong, but to save face publicly, he had to punish him.
Joseph found himself interpreting the dreams of two other officials of pharaoh, one being favorable and the other proving fatal, and the beneficiary of the favorable interpretation eventually remembered Joseph could interpret dreams and might be able to interpret a couple dreams pharaoh had dreamed. Joseph’s interpretation made sense to pharaoh, so pharaoh made him second in charge of Egypt. That essentially neutralized any of Joseph’s remaining enemies, if there were any left. Nine years later, two years into the famine, Joseph found himself with the perfect opportunity to get revenge on his brothers when they came to Egypt looking for food.
Most of you will remember that Joseph immediately recognized his brothers at this point, but they didn’t have a clue they were looking at their younger brother. So, like any good brother who’d been victimized by the rest of his brothers, he decided to play some head games with them to make them feel some pain. He had to be careful, though, because he was questioning his brothers closely about their intentions and accused them of being spies. They eventually “bought” some grain but had to leave one of their brothers in Joseph’s custody while they went back to Judah to get their youngest brother, Benjamin, whom Joseph may not have known.
The brothers went back to Judah to get Benjamin and discovered all their silver had been returned to them. Not sure how they missed THAT on the long trip. When they returned to Egypt a second time, Joseph kept at it with the mind games by seating his brothers from oldest to youngest and giving Benjamin five times the portions everyone else had.
That brings us to chapter 45. In spite of the fun Joseph must have been having playing these mind games with his brothers, he found he still loved all his brothers and broke down crying in a separate chamber. When he had composed himself, he returned to the dinner table and revealed himself to his brothers. Talk about being blindsided!!!
From this very real story then, what can we learn about dealing with anger or dealing with our enemies? [See also Psalm 37, which was read in the service before the message.] First, Joseph seemed to take much of this in stride. Never once do we read anything in the last fourth of Genesis about Joseph complaining about having been sold into slavery or wrongly accused of crimes against Potiphar’s wife. He knew what his own dreams meant and perhaps even when he was on the right path to fulfill those dreams, so he persevered through the worst conditions.
Second, and related to the first, Joseph never seemed to let anger get the best of him. When others in Joseph’s position found themselves faced with unfairness, they may not have endured with such patience and grace. His cool head landed him in the #2 spot in Egypt, where his dreams finally came through: his father and brothers had to bow down to him to get the food they needed to survive. He trusted God to get him through to the fulfillment of those dreams.
Finally, he made a generous offer to his brothers and their now-large families: they could live in the land of Goshen during the famine so they wouldn’t have to make the longer trips from Judah. You and I may not have land-a-plenty to give away, but we can usually find a way to provide some small gift. There’s nothing wrong with a peace offering, especially if you know it would be accepted and there’s been a genuine attempt at reconciliation.
So what is the way to love your enemies? If you’re not a police officer arresting someone or a mama bear safeguarding her children, maybe you can try killing them with kindness. If God’s kindness leads us to repentance; if God can be kind to the ungrateful and wicked, then I think we can find a way to respond similarly when faced with the actions of our enemies. Kindness and love are always appropriate, and I learned even this past week just how important that is for maintaining peace. But that’s a story for later time. Grace and peace to you. Amen.
[1] The New International Version. 2011. Grand Rapids, MI: Zondervan.
[2] The New International Version. 2011. Grand Rapids, MI: Zondervan.
[3] The New International Version. 2011. Grand Rapids, MI: Zondervan.
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